Monday, March 31, 2014

Not What I Expected

In the last few weeks, I have had the opportunity to watch people come together for a cause bigger than they probably even imagine. Recently, our non-profit acquired a cabin in Big Bear, something Rob has worked on for over a year now with the purpose of using it to serve and support others. This project has helped me see how truly simple life is when you surround yourself with those who freely give. I have learned a lot of lessons in the short time we have been working on the place but none as significant, so far, as the drive we took last week. Picking up a friend of my brother's, one that I realized is not 18 anymore, but an adult, one that loves and cares for people passionately; I was reminded at how complicated I make things sometimes. Through his life, his stories and his excitement for the work ahead, I realized how I worry about insignificant things, focus on what others think, and get a little too selfish at times.

We all have a chance to make a difference in the lives of those around us and sometimes we are too caught up in ourselves; we miss the opportunities. I don't know about you, but being so busy we don't have time to help a friend out isn't nearly as satisfying as being a part of something that will make a difference in people's lives for years to come. 

My heart was changed that day and I can't wait to see what else is ahead. Let's appreciate all that we have, give freely and love without expectation.  I think, then, we will truly love a life of abundance.